Divorce is emotional: Leading the parade of cases in which a person should never, under any circumstance, represent themselves is the emotionally charged Divorce [or the Divorce where the person is "beat down" and just wants out]. We recognize that going through a divorce is one of the most difficult times an individual can go through. Your soon-to-be ex-spouse may be doing all he or she can to get under your skin, which only magnifies each little thing they do to make your life miserable.
Taking a deep breath calms you down and lets you think clearly.
When we represent you we are there to discuss proper responses to immature behavior by your spouse toward you that he or she calculated to try to get you seeing red; rather than let it get under your skin let's strategize how to turn that conduct back on your spouse when we get in front of the Court.